Saturday, October 11, 2008

Honey, you can skip this one

My wife is a better person than I am by orders of magnitude. She would always prefer to believe the best of people and be thought overly naive and generous than be thought cynical and mean-spirited. I, on the other hand, couldn't resist mentioning this gem. Here is the scenario:

One unit in our building is owned by a really nice couple and occupied by their daughter, who fulfills none of her responsibilities as a resident. The most conspicuous of these is the weekly washing the common entranceway and stairs, which falls to the resident of her first-floor unit every fifth week.
The head of the tenants' committee has sent reminders to everyone about this to no avail, and I think every single resident managed to slip either this or some other lapse or issue into conversation when her parents showed up for a weekend project to landscape the back yard (though the daughter was a no-show). Their response was always to pass the buck to us and encourage us to teach their daughter about her adult responsibilities.
So the residents get an email this week from the mother, saying that the daughter says the reason she hasn't ever washed the hall or stairs is that she doesn't think it's right for her to wash areas (like the second and third floors) that she doesn't actually walk on herself, but now she says she would be OK with washing from the front door to her unit, i.e. the bit she actually uses.

How to respond to that, I wonder? Any suggestions?

5 Comments:

At 11:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Robert..!

Well, I lived with a person like that last year. This person wasn't going to pay her share of the rent for the social areas of the flat because she never used it.

Well, tough luck for her, everybody got together and told her that "this was part of the deal" living in a collective.

Doesn't it say in her contract that she has to do it?


- Peter

 
At 10:58 PM, Blogger PartTimeNorwegian said...

Yeah, it's part of our resident responsibilities, and I'm sure we could force her to do her share if we wanted -- fine her or something. She's just such a piss-poor excuse for a human being that my first reaction was actually "good! We might finally get some work out of her!" Though I really doubt that she'll ever do it. It's just sad we have to keep on her about this, and really pitiful how her parents enable this sort of crap. Really it's no wonder how she turned out. I almost called the post "Let's play 'Spot the parenting errors'!" but thought that was too snarky. She was a student for a while, but that took effort and/or brains, so now as far as I can tell she doesn't do anything except contribute to global warming when she farts.

 
At 4:06 AM, Blogger Lee said...

Dirt and mud might mysteriously coagulate outside her door. So much so that she might even think people were sweeping all the dirt there on purpose. Especially on wet, snowy days. Poor girl.

 
At 12:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's a bummer man, no doubt about that.

Question is why people end up like her, that's what makes me wonder really, it's just sad.

I don't like the term of "you get what you deserve", but hey, she'll probably have a miserable life because of her ignorance towards others and that is a "sentence" in my opinion. She would get so much further if she would only accept/understand her own role in society.

 
At 11:00 PM, Blogger PartTimeNorwegian said...

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